There are two types of freedom that are so important for most anyone. But for those of us who have Asperger’s it’s even more important. What I am talking about is. financial and mobile. What I am talking about is, how important it is to have you own cash and a drivers license, you need to explain to your kids how important those two things are. Now I am pretty sure the next question is, what if my son or…
One of the most important things to remember is this: It’s not the quanity that matters, but the quality. In other words, its better to have one or two good friends, that many average friends. This is a tough one. We all want to be popular and have friends and be invited to parties. For me I only have 2 good friends. I only see one of them more than the other because of the times they are off of…
One of the most important things you can do is to stay active. This is how you able to make time go by so much faster. Now there are several ways you can do this and no watching TV does not count. One of the ways to stay active is to work out, either at a gym like LA Fitness or any of the other gyms out there or on your own. Another way is to get out and get…
No one is perfect not even me. This story is quite the example of it. When I was in Rome. I went exploring with the notion that with my phone that I could find my back to my hotel. Boy was I wrong. I began walking around to where I found a little shop that was selling sweets and sandwiches and mini pizzas. So I figured I would stop in and eat. So walked in and ordered something to eat.…
Whatever it can be dream it big. No matter how outrageous it is, make that your goal.. Who knows you could be the next (fill in the blank) with Aspergers to fill that role. My dream now is be a travel blogger for all who have Asperger to show everyone you can do anything you want, and to show you there is a whole world out there for you to explore. If you want to travel and you have the…
Never let anyone get the in the way of your dreams. I always like to dream for the stars, because you never know what is around the corner. That is why I despise the word CAN’T. I have always have been a dreamer, I and when someone sits here and tells me you CAN’T do this, or you CAN’T do that, I go out to prove them wrong. Always stand strong no matter what you beliefs or dreams are, and…
One of the best ways to do this is, going to college and staying at a dorm. How this works is while you are at school. You will learn several things. You will learn how to handle budgeting, work/play time, scheduling, and you will make ever lasting friendships. One of the things I did was something my mother told me to do, which was do not stay in your room. This way you can get to know your campus and…
This is a new year. Time to start fresh. Time to do the things you always wanted to do. Some of the best advice I can give you is, don’t let anything get in your way. What I am talking about, is if you have friends or family who are always negative, telling you “You can’t do that!” ignore them and do it anyway. To give you a example of this, I had a friend, lets call him “J” who…
Life, is tricky to navigate. There are pot holes and set backs and ups and downs. But we have to taken them and keep going. I have had so many set backs, that I have to keep remind myself that I need to keep going, and I can’t let enough get me down, otherwise it will be a tough road back up. I have kinda let myself down, and I felt that monster called depression creep in, but I did…
What I am talking about is, never be afraid to embrace who you are. Take control of your life and enjoy being different from everyone else. Think of it as “Hey I have something they don’t”. So we act a little different or do things differently then the rest, its what makes us who we are. Life will always throw things our way, you have to learn to take it and run with it. No matter what it is. Not…