One of the most important things to remember is this: It’s not the quanity that matters, but the quality. In other words, its better to have one or two good friends, that many average friends.
This is a tough one. We all want to be popular and have friends and be invited to parties. For me I only have 2 good friends. I only see one of them more than the other because of the times they are off of work.
Am I happy with just two friends. Yes. Why? Because I don’t have to worry about who is going to like who and be pulled around like a rag doll or made to leave one friend for another. In one of my post you read about another friend “J”. He was not the best friend I have had. So in the end we cut ties. Was I unhappy, the real answer is no. This is because I know who I am and what I like and this friend only cared about himself.
Making friends is hard, the best advice I can give anyone of you is, Be yourself, don’t try to be someone your not. If they don’t like you for who you are than they are not worth being your friend in the first place.
Remember, you are unique, and you want people to be around people who will appreciate that also remember its not the quantity that matters but the quality of friend that matters more.
One of the most important things is, because we are very trusting, we need to keep personal stuff about ourselves personal..
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